SEX-tionary
A
AC/DC Bisexuality.
ATM “Ass to Mouth” as in a finger, penis, or sex toy (or whatever else you may be penetrating with) taken from the anus then put into the mouth. *Can cause disease and infection*
A Spot The Anterior Fornix Erogenous (AFE) Zone located inside of the vaginal wall opposite of the G spot. Its more sensitive, easier to access, & bigger than the G Spot.
abortion Termination of pregnancy.
[sexual]abstinence The refraining from some or all sexual activity for medical, legal, religious or ethical reasons.
anal beads A string of beads placed in the anus and bulled out a the point of orgasm.anal sex Penetrative intercourse via the anus.
anal sex Sexual intercourse in where the anus is penetrated.
analingus Oral stimulation to the anus. Also called “tossing salad” and rimming.
Ananaga Ranga Wrote by Kalyana Malla to keep marriages together by escaping monotony in monogamy. It uses a lot of information from the Kama Sutra but goes a step further by identifying different personality types, explaining what they require sexually while maintaining sex should be the end result of all the teachings and techniques covered in the book. It purpose is to renew couple’s desire for each other.
angry dragon Ejaculating in someone’s mouth and then hitting them in the back of the head, forcing the cum out of their nose so that they look like an angry dragon breathing fire.
anorgasmic Incapable of having an orgasm.
aphrodisiac An experience or substance that stimulates or enhances sexual encounters.
asexual A sexual orientation in which one desires neither sex/gender.
autoerotic asphyxiation The act of choking someone until they almost die in order to intensify the climax.
autofellatio For a man to perform oral sex on himself, putting his penis in his own mouth.
B
B/D Bondage/Discipline
BDSM Bondage, Discipline & Sadomasochism- the elements of bondage and submission.
bareback Unprotected sex. Raw.
Back Spackle Cumming on someone’s back or anus.
beastiality Sex with animals. Also called zoophilia.
biphobic/biphobia Fear or dislike of bisexual people.
bisexual A person who is romantically and/or sexually attracted to both males and females.
black sexual stereotypes Sexual stereotypes that are negative in relation to people that are black.
blood sports BDSM that involves blood, including cutting and piercing.
blow job Oral sex on a man. Fellatio.
blue balls When a man has an erection for a long period of time without ejaculating; this can cause a swollen, painful feeling in the testicles.
bondage The sexual arousal by means of physical restraint with handcuffs, ropes, silk scarves for example.
bottom The submissive half of a bondage duo.
breath play Restricting air flow, strangulation, suffocation or other means that bring sexual gratification.
brute A sexual stereotype that portrays black men as animalistic, hypersexual, criminal and destructive.
bukkake Where many men ejaculate on the face of a woman. Usually seen in pornography.
butch A female who has masculine appearance/characteristics that is a lesbian. The opposite of a femme.
butt plug An adult novelty that is diamond shaped with a flared end usually made of silicone or plastic, used to provide arousal to the anus.
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C
CBT Cock and ball torture.
castration Removal of the testicles.
cervical cap Birth control device that covers the cervix, creating a barrier so that semen cannot enter.
cervix The opening to the uterus.
chlamydia Sexually Transmitted Infection that often displays no symptoms but can lead to infertility. If caught early it is easily treated with antibiotics.
circumcision Small surgical procedure performed by a doctor or a religious expert that removes the foreskin off of the penis. Usually done for medical or religious reasons.
clitoris Know as the “pleasure button”, it is the only human organ that is exclusively for sexual pleasure. This organ is located at the top of the vulva, covered with a clitoral hood. It becomes engorged when a woman is sexually aroused.
cock ring Sexual novelty for men to allow them to control their erections by fitting this ring that can be made of rubber, metal or leather around the base of the shaft while erect. What this does is stop the blood from flowing back out of the penis, allowing the male to sustain his erection.
condom A sheath that serves as a protective cover over the penis to safeguard it from bodily fluids as well as preventing pregnancy. Usually latex but it is also made of other materials.
coon A sexual stereotype that identifies black men as lazy, dumb, scary and incapable of taking care of himself as an adult.
coprophila Sexual interest in feces.
coprophagia The eating of feces. *dangerous sexual practice*
copulate Have sexual intercourse.
Cowper’s Gland This is the gland in males that produces pre-cum.
crabs A sexually transmitted infection which is lice inhabiting pubic hair.
cream pie A woman with cum dripping from her anus or vagina.
cross dress For a man to wear women’s clothing. Used especially for men who only occasionally dress as women but maintain their masculine identity otherwise.
crushing A fetish practice where someone steps on food, insects, or even small animals.
cum Slang for male ejaculate.
cunnilingus Oral sex performed on a female. Also called eating pussy.
cybersex Having sex over the Internet. Usually refers to erotic chatting via the computer while one or both of the parties is masturbating.
D
DA double anal; two penises in one anus.
Danza Slap Slapping a woman in her face with your penis.
deep throat Fellatio in which the penis is inserted far into the mouth, entering the throat.
deflower When a man has sex with a female virgin.
dental dam A protective barrier used for cunnilingus and analingus.
diaphragm Contraceptive barrier that is placed inside of the vagina that holds spermicidal jelly against a female’s cervix.
dildo Sexual novelty that is usually shaped like a penis but is not motorized. Can be made of glass, hard or soft plastic, jelly or Future Flesh. Dildos are water proof and come in a variety of legths, colors and usages such as butt plugs or double dildos.
Dirty Sanchez Performing fellatio on someone after having anal sex. Also after anal sex, wiping off off the dirty penis or hand on the woman’s upper lip, to simulate a mustache.
doggy style A sexual position where the woman is penetrated vaginally on all fours from behind.
dom Dominatrix or Dominator
double penetration A penis or dildo in the vagina and anus at the same time.
dry humping Simulating sex with your clothes on. Also called frottage and hunching
E
Edge Play Sex including death, injury or humiliation. *DANGEROUS*
Erotophilia- a term used in sexology which describes a dimension of personality concerning sexuality.
Erotophile- a person who experiences less guilt about sex, can talk about sex openly, and hold more positive ideas towards sexually explicit material.
Erotophobe- a person who feels guilty or fears sex, are less likely to talk about sex, have more negative feelings towards sexually explicit materials and have sex less frequently and with fewer partners over time.
Exhibitionism Involves exposing genitals in order to become sexually excited or having a strong desire to be watched while engaging in sexual activity.
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F
felching Licking male ejaculate out of either the anus or vagina.
female condom A polyurethane sheath, with a ring on each end that is inserted into the vagina, which is an effective barrier to semen and HIV transmission.
fetish A specific object that an individual eroticizes for sexual gratification.
fetishism The use of a physical object as a preferred way to produce sexual arousal.
fisting Inserting a whole fist into a vagina or anus.
foreplay Essential component to sexual activity which happens prior to sexual intercourse. It permits opportunity for arousal and proper lubrication to help ensure a satisfying sexual experience.
foreskin A flap of skin that extends from the shaft of the penis to the head to maintain moisture and provide protection. This is what is removed in circumcision.
frenulum Located below the head of the penis on the side that faces away from the body when it is erect. Extremely sensitive area.
G
G Spot Named after Dr. Grafenberg, it is a erogenous zone locate 1 to 2 inches inside of the vagina that stimulates climax by being rubbed/massaged or tapped. Can be found by inserting fingers inside of the vagina and moving fingers in a “come hither” motion.
Glory Hole A hole in the wall in which someone stick their penis through and there is someone on the other side of the wall sucking them off.
Golden Shower The act of peeing on someone or being peed on.
H
head Oral sex given to males. Also called fellatio, blow job, giving brains, sucking dick
hermanphrodite A person that has the genitals of both a male and a female. This is usually caused by an excess of the hormone androgen during pregnancy.
herpes A virus that can effect the mouth or genitals. It forms a rash and can cause flu like symptoms. Once infected you can treat it but it will never be cured, it remains in the body.
heterosexual A sexual orientation which means that you are attracted sexually and/or romantically to the opposite sex.
homogany The practice of marrying someone of the same cultural, sociological and economical background. Also same sex marriage.
homosexual A sexual orientation which means that you are attracted sexually and/or romantically to the same sex exclusively.
I
infantilism Type of role play where an adult acts as if they are an infant wearing baby clothing, being changed and even disciplined by a parental figure.
impotence When a male is unable to get an erection on a regular basis.
J
jacking off Male masturbation.
jezebel A sexual stereotype that portrays black women as easy, seductive, promiscuous and lewd by nature.
jilling off Female masturbation.
K
Kama Sutra An Indian classical book on the art of love and techniques of lovemaking.
Kegel Exercises The squeezing and tightening of you PC (pubocygeus) muscle which help to make you more aware of sexual sensation and intensify orgasms. It also is attributed to toning of vaginal walls in females and stamina in males.
kinky Sexual activity that is somehow non-traditional or exotic.
L
labia majora The outer lips of the vagina.
labia minora The inner lips of the vagina.
lesbian A female who is sexually and romantically attracted to females.
libido The desire that drives us to have sexual relations with someone.
Lucky Pierre A man, having sex with two other men, who is simultaneously penetrating one man anally while being penetrated anally by the other. He is “lucky” because he is the only one of the three to enjoy both sex acts simultaneously.
M
maithuna A technique used in Tantric sex to suppress orgasm.
mammy A sexual stereotype that identifies black women as obese, sexless, loyal, nurturing house servanst/cooks who didn’t want anything more than life but to serve others.
masochist A person who derives sexual gratification from being abused.
Masturbation Stimulating your own genitals for sexual gratification. Also called autoeroticism and onanism.
matriarch A sexual stereotype that portrays black women as a strong black woman who is overly aggressive and emasculates men.
missionary position The male and female have intercourse facing each other with the man on top.
monilia Vaginal yeast infection (candida albicans) that can be painful and cause thick discharge together with intense itching.
mons pubis The fleshy region of the vulva where pubic hair grows.
monogamy: The practice of being married to one partner at a time. Also the practice of having one sexual partner at a time.
Montgomery Glands Small bumps on the nipples.
morning-after pill Two emergency contraceptive pills taken orally 12 hours after each other and can be used up to 72 hours after unprotected sex.
N
nat A sexual stereotype that portrays black men as angry, blood thirsty, crazed revengeful brutes that hate whites.
necrophilia The desire to have sex with dead people.
nocturnal emission A wet dream. Common for boys during puberty.
nonmonogamy Term used for various types of personal relationships where parties have more than one sexual, romantic and/or marital partners. This includes: open relationships, casual relationships, group marriages, infidelity, group sex & orgies, threesomes, polyamory, swinging & polygamy.
nonoxynol-9 Spermicide. Used in most contraceptive foams and gels that change the pH of the male sperm and renders it infertile.
nymphomania/nymphomaniac Derogatory term for a woman who is sexually obsessed or has sex with many partners. *usually viewed as a sexist term*
O
onanism Masturbation.
oral contraceptive A pill taken by women that allows them to have sex without becoming pregnant; birth control pill.
oral sex The stimulation of the genitals and/or anus with your mouth.
orgasm The sensations caused from sexual excitement that ripple through your body at the highest state of arousal.
orgy A sexual encounter with three or more people. Group sex.
ovarian cancer A disease that occurs when the cells in the ovary divide and grow uncontrollably. This can result in a tumor on the ovary or break of into a tumor itself and spread to other parts of the body. Symptoms are similar to gastrointestinal illness and indigestion, making the disease hard to diagnose.
P
PC (Pubococcygeus) Muscle The muscle targeted when doing Kegel exercises that can be located when you stop the flow of urine.
papervine A drug injected into the penis which makes it hard and erect.
paraphilia A sexual obsession usually over a sexual act or object.
pearl necklace Ejaculating around the throat and breast of someone, making it look like a necklace.
pedophilia A preference for sexual activity with children.
peg To use a strap-on or dildo on someone.
Pelvic Inflammatory Disease (PID) A bacterial infection that causes inflammation of the female sex organs, usually the fallopian tubes.
penetration The insertion of a penis or an object into the vagina or anus.
perineum Sensitive area that is located between the genitals and anus on both males and females.
pessaries Spermicides in the form of small bullets that can be placed inside of the vagina.
petit mort French for “a little death”. Orgasm.
picaninny A sexual stereotype used to portray black children.
play Sexual Activity. Commonly used when dealing with BDSM.
pocket pussy A masturbation toy that resembles a vagina.
polyamory Individuals who have a committed relationship (romantic/sexual) with more than one person.
polygamy The practice of having more than one husband or wife. Also the practice of having more than one sexual partner of the opposite sex.
porn/pornography Any sexually explicit picture, movie, book, etc.
precum The fluid that leaks from an erect penis during sexual excitement. Its properties deacidfy the urethra so that ejaculate has a greater chance of impregnating the female.
premarital sex Sexual intercourse between two unmarried people.
priapism Named after the Greek God of male reproductive power Priapus, this is a painful “trapped” erection that will not go down.
Prince Albert Body modification to the penis, whereas it is pierced through the urethral opening (pee hole/meatus) and comes out on the under side of the shaft.
prostate The gland that is responsible for a portion of the male ejaculate which contracts seconds before orgasm. Located in the floor of the rectum.
prostate cancer A disease that is hard to diagnose since cancer in the prostate is normal. The production of testosterone tend to excite the cancer in the prostate activating the dormant cancer cells in the prostate. The direct cause of prostate cancer is not clearly known as of yet.
prostitution The exchange of sex for goods and services but most commonly money.
pubocygeus (PC) muscle Holds the pelvic floor together.
Q
queefWhen the vagina farts.
queerGay or lesbian.
quickieSexual intercourse done in a short amount of time.
R
rainbow sex Performing oral sex on a woman while she is menstruating. Also called Eagle Wings and Red Wings.
rape Forced sex on either a male or a female.
reach around The act of performing anal sex on a man and reaching around to give him a hand job.
rubber Condom.
Rusty Trombone When someone licks a man’s ass and reaches around to the front to masturbate his penis. So called because it appears that the person is blowing into the ass and manipulating the penis like a musical instrument. Also may refer to performing oral sex on a man right after he’s engaged in anal sex.
S
sadist A person who receives sexual gratification from harming/abusing/inflicting pain on someone. Usually the top or DOM.
safe word A prearranged word decided upon before any sexual act that is used commonly in the BDSM world, to imply to the top to stop or ease up off the bottom.
sapphire A sexual stereotype that portrays black women as loud, rude, stubborn, angry and malicious.
serotonin The neuro-transmitter and hormone 5-hydroxytryptamine )5-HT) which is found in many tissues, especially in the brain, the intellectual lining and blood platelets. It is concerned with controlling moods and levels of consciousness.
sex Any activity that stimulates the body to the point or/arousal and or orgasm. Not limited to vaginal and anal intercourse. Masturbation is manual sex, just as oral stimulation of the genitals is oral sex. Other names include fucking, coitus, lovemaking.
sex positive movement Concept that sexual expression is good and healthy that does not generally make moral or ethical judgements on people but view them as a sexual personal preference. This movement is pro comprehensive & accurate sex education. It respects each person’s individual choice of how they choose to express themselves sexually as long as there is no coercion, abuse or any other negative aspects of sexuality.
sexting The act of sending sexually explicit text messages, nude pictures usually via cellphone.
sextortion A form of sexual exploitation where people are extorted with a nude pictures of themselves they shared via sexting. They are later coerced into performing sexual acts with the person doing the extorting, and are coerced into performing porn.
Sexual Revolution A social movement in the 1960s which sought to bring sex into the forefront. Here you have the birth of orgies, swinging, women wanting to be sexually pleased & active participants in the bedroom, birth control, more experimentation within marriages as well as mutual masturbation, foreplay and oral sex.
S&M Sexual scenarios involving a Sadist and a Masochist where they act out domination and submission fantasies.
smegma Build up of this pungent substance underneath the foreskin or clitoral hood.
sodomy Generally understood to mean anal penetration.
soixante-neuf (69) Sexual position where two people perform oral sex on each other at the same time.
spermicide A cream, gel or pessary that will kill sperm on contact, preventing pregnancy.
STI Sexually Transmitted Infection. Often used interchangeably with STD (sexually transmitted disease).
swinging Partner swapping, often involving group sex or swinger’s parties.
switches People who alternate from being a DOM to a sub from a “top” to a “bottom”.
T
taint The area between the genitals and the anus. Also called the perineum.
Tantra A number of Hindu and Buddhist writings giving religious teachings and ritual instructions with a keen understanding and celebration of sexuality and spirituality.
tea bagging A sexual act whereas a man dips his balls into someone’s mouth or onto someone’s face.
tea room A public toilet where gay men often have sex.
tease To arouse sexually and not follow through.
threesome Sexual behavior involving 3 active participants.
tom A sexual stereotype that refers to black men as being happy, faithful, submissive servant.
top The master, mistress or dominator in BDSM.
toxic shock syndrome Rare but potentially lethal infection from using tampons.
train A line of men having sex, where each man anally penetrates the man in front of him, connecting together like the cars of a train. Also a line of men who penetrates someone right after the other one has finished.
transgender Living as the opposite sex from which one is born, especially having undergone surgery and/or hormone treatments to make oneself appear like the opposite sex.
transexual Someone who was born one physical sex but feel that their gender is of the opposite sex. They may or may not have gone through surgery and/or hormone treatments to appear to be the opposite sex.
transvestite A man who dresses up like a woman on the regular and goes out in public that way.
tribadism Lesbian sexual act of rubbing two vaginas together.
tubal ligation A surgical procedure done to permanently make a female sterile.
U
U Spot A newly discovered erogenous zone that is located north and to the sites of urethra (pee hole). It is rigid and ultra sensitive.
urethral sponge Cushioned area that protects the urethra during intercourse.
V
vagina Female sex internal sex organ.
vaginismus Female dysfunction whereas the female’s vaginal muscles contract too tightly making intercourse difficult.
vanilla Sexual acts that are not kinky or erotic in nature. “Traditional sex” between women and men.
vasectomy Surgery, performed on a man’s vas deferens inside the scrotum, which renders him infertile.
Venereal Disease (VD) A sexually transmitted disease, traditionally refers to syphilis and gonorrhea.
vibrator An electrical device that vibrates most commonly known as a sexual novelty that is used during masturbation. Can be used vaginally, anally or clitorally.
violet wand BDSM sex toy that is shaped like a wand and shocks.
virgin A man or woman who has never engaged in penetrative sex.
vominatrix A dominatrix that specializes in making her clients vomit.
voyeurism A fetish involving a person gaining sexual satisfaction or excitement from watching others disrobe or perform sexual acts.
vulva The external female genitalia.
W
water based lubricants The safest lubricants for vaginal intercourse. Feel more natural than other lubricants but may dry out in extended love making sessions.
watersports Sex play whereas someone is aroused by peeing on someone or someone is aroused by being peed on.
welfare queen A sexual stereotype that portrays black women as lazy, doesn’t want to work, passes bad morality & values to her children, is uneducated and poor.
wet When a woman is sexually excited and her vagina produces lubrication.
wet dream Nocturnal emission.
wheelbarrow Doggy style sex position where the typically the male has the female by her legs as she is on her stomach, penetrating her as if he is plowing a wheelbarrow.
woman-on-top A sexual position where the woman is on top of their partner. Commonly referred to as riding.
X
X-ratedShowing explicit sex acts, especially used to describe pornographic movies.
Y
yaoi Japanese anime erotic cartoons that focus on male on male sexuality.
yeast infection Fungal infections that particularly afflict moist areas such as between the toes, vagina & penis.
Z
zoophileA person who has sexual interest in animals.