Sexually…What Are You Worth?

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In 2011 we always hear the term “know your worth”. I always took it to mean not to settle and to step your game up.  So let’s talk about SEX. They say that sex sells, so how much is your sex worth? Now, I know some of you are  thinking”woooaaah doc hold on!” Let me assure you I am not talking about money or selling your body. I am talking about knowing your worth in the bed room and with your sexual partner.

Now from my point of view a man wants a woman who is not just going to lay there and be a corpse so to speak,  thinking that it is the mans job to do everything. I am also sure that a woman does not want a man who is inadequate in the bedroom.  So how do we determine that we are getting our just due in the bedroom? If you know for a fact that when you step into the bedroom, you’re going to give your all- how do you know you can expect to get that back. Well I will tell you a few ways that can help.

First is simple communication. You already know that if you both are physically attracted to each other the next topic to come up will at some point be sex. So don’t be afraid to ask the freaky questions. In fact ask what he or she likes in the bedroom. This will at least give you a preview of their sex play book.  Tell them what you like…you don’t have to tell them everything  but give your man/woman something to work with. If you know your sexual worth will produce multiple orgasms you want be sure that you are getting that same participation back.

WAIT!!! Couples….married people hold on….I didn’t forget about you. There is no doubt that overall you are happy, you love your S.O. but sometimes after long periods of time with each other, your sexual attraction or activities could go down. You don’t say anything to one another because you “love” them and don’t want to hurt their feelings.

Each relationship is different and some people may not have this problem. For those that do, I have a suggestion. Go back to the basics of what got you there in the first place. Whether it be courting, that first date, flirting, whatever…go back to it. Show your partner your sexual worth by surprising him/her….romantic dinner….role play. Your sexual worth does not even have to be sexual contact but by the time you get to the bed room you’ll remember that spontaneous spine busting sex that kept your S.O. coming back for more.

Sex is a very beautiful thing and it requires chemistry between two people. However, all people aren’t compatible and sometimes you may run into a person who you are physically attracted to but they just aren’t up to par in the bedroom. You have a two choices: 1. not to deal with them or 2. work with them and show them what you like. You win some and you lose some sexual battles but end the end you can win the war. With that said know your worth sexually. As always, I look forward to hearing back from you.

The Dr.

 

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